Bid to be Optimist….

Among the many sad and pessimistic things we are fed abundantly everyday, is divorce. We hear of young people getting married, after love or arranged and getting divorced and the instances are on the increase…

One of the reasons attributed is the empowerment of women… we all know and have admitted that the women are the smarter. Coupled with this, the relatively new and equal opportunities have led the women to be independent and and in most cases, more successful…

Then, if the divorce is a result of the pretending male chauvinist to admit a fact as a fact, it’s alright and in many cases better…

But we are also to look at the details. If there’s a child in the bargain, then it’s bad, too bad… the child is not an own choice, it’s due to the act of the parents and the child has the right to have parents with him or her… God willing…

This is where I would urge parents,desperate ones, to look at this right of children and make sacrifices…

Easy said and done… usually I don’t raise an issue without suggesting a solution… I remembered one such possible solution; and hence this controversial post…

This is about two smart people in a training program where the residential participants are from different companies and from all over India. There was immediate recognition that the two stood out in the group,,, not in the subject of training… you know what…

Conversations were also in trying to outsmart the other… like when others found the two together on off times… he ‘like minds think alike’ her smart comment ‘fools hardly differ’

The training was all of three weeks and the two had a great time… both were in the early thirties and both married with children…

One day she ‘I am fine with a meaningful relationship outside marriage’. He was not prepared for such a bombshell.. and pretended he didn’t understand..

Time went by… frequent calls came down to trickles… 

Then one day he learned, she had a painful divorce…

Perhaps an acceptance of a meaningful, controlled relationship could have saved the marriage… giving her something to look for.. perhaps he didn’t have a need for it like her’s..

I can recommend with confidence… if you find someone who can keep you alive with happiness and both are with children… but think about something else… then try for a meaningful relationship outside marriage..

I hope I will not be judged as recommending something sinister… but I have the welfare of the children who would be affected..in mind.

He and she here may get the happiness outside and that should be a catalyst for a tolerant family life…

Story Continues (katha thudarunnu)…after the twist to the plot…

Aphrodite is busy… as such not much of a divine input to the story… 

then the challenge is… how to become an angel.. I have seen pictures of angels with wings flapping.. always floating in the air… carrying something…if I remember right flowers…

Flowers is okay.. but how about wings??

I must get them… for there’s another one sporting them… and must be flying all around Aphrodite…

But then you don’t disturb the goddess.. no games when it comes to her.. goddess has mentioned that the angel will appear wherever, whenever she needs… 
that’s what I have to do with her… be available to Aphrodite…whenever, wherever… ready to be of service… now that love is proclaimed…

But I can do all tricks…with no rules holding back.. and tackle the unknown rival and occupy the angelic position above the right shoulder of Aphrodite…

Bid to be Optimist….

2 thoughts on “Bid to be Optimist….

  1. What if the ‘meaningful relationship outside marriage’ is itself the cause of the rift? This can work only if mutually agreed between the warring partners and even then, ?
    Waiting for the day you win your Aphrodite back😊

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    1. The problem is, there’s no rules in love and war. Thus the what’s and ifs have no relevance . Only thing is that you can reflect later, like in the training course case.
      But when it comes to goddess Aphrodite. there are rules, for you are dealing with a goddess

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