The below is a forward I received. I fully agree with it , but with a doubt or question. I will raise some of the questions here and may continue through some of the future posts. The intention is to share my view and argue my case as many of you seem to have abandoned me…… thinking I am off my hooks.
New York is 3 hours ahead of California but it does not mean that California is slow, or that New York is fast. Both are working based on their own “Time Zone.”
Some one is still single. Someone *got married* and ‘waited’ 10 years before having a child. There is another who had a baby within a year of marriage.
Someone graduated at the age of 22, yet waited 5 years before *securing a good job*; and there is another who graduated at 27 and secured employment immediately !
Someone *became CEO* at 25 and died at 50 while another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years.
Everyone works based on their ‘Time Zone’,
People can have things worked out only according to their pace.
Work in your *time zone*
Your Colleagues, friends, younger ones might “seem” to go ahead of you.
May be some might “seem” behind you.
Everyone is in this world running their own race on their own lane in their own time. God has a different plan for everybody.Time is the difference. *Obama retires at 55, Trump resumes at 70*
Don’t envy them or mock them, it’s their ‘Time Zone.’
You are in yours!
Hold on, be strong, and stay true to yourself. All things shall work together for your good.
You’re not late … You are not early … you’re very much On time!😊👍
You Are In Your Time Zone….🌐
End forward ……………………
Well well!! It’s true. But it’s a bit dangerous. May make us resigned to what we have. Sort of fixated.
Here’s the solution.. be a dreamer. Dream beautifully…… and find the missing ingredients.
For example, you are happily married and you want to make your spouse happy also. Nowadays the surprise element is the one working well in marriages.
Now when you want to surprise, you have to plan surprises without the spouse knowing it. Then you need someone you trust. And the interaction with the trusted is to be confidential.
This explains why I say I want to be dominated by one person. This is the one I trust. I will then have no secrets with the one……
But imagine, suddenly you lose access to the trusted……
You just have to get the access back. Somehow. The first step is dream world. Do the things you used to do in dreams and sometimes in actions.
For example, suppose the communication with the trusted is through.. say whatsapp, and you lose access. Then being a dreamer, you go to the inactive account and continue writing the way you used to. Then when these include secrets you delete them.
I have been doing that and just realized that when you delete a message which is not sent, it won’t reach the destination even when the trusted account is activated.
Have to find a solution……