When imperfect and ineligible for something, it’s of no use running away and be sorry about it. Perhaps it’s a good idea to search for what you can and maximise it’s potential.
Once we do that, we’re likely to achieve the happiness that we’re searching for.
Question then… won’t there be a regret?
Answer is yes! But it’s our fault. The two negatives here won’t make it a positive. At the same time they need not destroy us. Pick up what you see and what you can and there’ll be bliss.
When the heart is pure, nothing else matters!