Of late this message is talking somewhat centre stage and it’s worth taking a look at it.
All these years love for me has been something to be given and not for being selfish about it.
But having taken a good look at it, I now feel that there’s immense merit in the approach.
Accordingly I am making a start.
Of course, the reason is something like ‘charity begins at home’ and ‘do unto others what you do to yourself’ etc.
Now I am on it, and the few steps would be
1. A toned up shaped body (six pack is totally elusive though).
2. Appreciate progress at least once a day in front of mirror, certainly without a shirt
3. Use hair trimmer at point 1 regularly
4. Visit a skin specialist to remove the two dark spots on the face
5. Muster enough courage to go to a beauty parlour
And start spreading love once I am sure that I love myself 💝
Love is selfish! Nice.
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Loving yourself may be to be healthy and fit, physically and mentally. A six pack and the removal of the dark spots, are they necessary?? 😉
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Six pack is sort of impossible. And the spots- good question 😉
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Hmm…. I agree with you. Great post on loving oneself. Great thoughts Tessa.
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Thank you 🙂
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Not impossible,maybe difficult. Yet, self love is much more than making ourselves more presentable! That’s what I believe. It’s just that we need to be healthy. Loving others more than us makes us negligent about ourselves. So, let the dark spots be the sign of confidence… isn’t???
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Yes Tessa, you’re right. Thank you for the kind words
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Just for fun… Love must be selfish sometimes !! I agree with you.
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Thank you Tessa 😊
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Well ….. I believe that’s gonna be a great start at loving yourself !! Hope you live it to the fullest 💙
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Thank you.
I am today a happy person to see you here again ❤️
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Hope you received the mail.
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Just saw it. I am very very happy
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Is the poem under a new name. I just read one and it feels like you
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I don’t write under any other name dear.💙
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But I’d love to know what is it that feels like me….💙
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Not able to locate that one. I think it’s the style or an angelic feeling
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Great
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So am I.💙
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Thank you so much ❤️
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More than a pleasure 💙
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❤️
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Spread love whilst learning to love yourself. It’s good for the soul. 😊
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That’s a lovely message Lorraine. Thank you
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Very true – you get beck the energy that you give out 😉💛
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I meant “back” lol x
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Lol Cherryl. Good morning
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Indeed
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I am waiting for a Facebook picture of you with a pedicure!!
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Oh wah. You are so sweet Elizabeth
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I totally agree with u and well said😊
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yes self-love can take many forms … most focus on the appearance … for me it’s a body/mind connection … best of luck in whatever you do Kurian 🙂
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In my opinion loving yourself is – accepting and loving yourself as you are and positive improvements are always great.
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Thank you Rekha for your valuable observation
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Someone once told me that, if you find yourself trying to look beautiful it is because you are in love. Now I know who that lover is.
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Oh no, love yourself. Will we be missing an opportunity 😂
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